Hi are they anything to help fall pregnant or any thing to do and how long do u have to waite when off the phi?

i'm 19 soon to be married and i work on the rig so money i have love i have every thing i want but there some thing missing i want a lil more in my life plez don't tell me to young and how long dose it take oce you are off the phill and any thing to help fal she a lot older than me she 25